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Speaker 2: Hey, God, vishalsa to joy to be with all of
Speaker 2: you today. Thank you so much for dropping by. I
Speaker 2: just want to decline that God has great things and
Speaker 2: stuff for you as well. Today we have a special
Speaker 2: guest with us and it's None at the ten Stella
Speaker 2: Ramola and Acrindus with us. She's a Christian lifestyle blogger,
Speaker 2: a singer, a songwriter and songs have been a blessing
Speaker 2: to so many multitudes across the globe, both in English
Speaker 2: as well as in Tamble. And she is part of
Speaker 2: the Jesus called International Ministries as well as U Turn Ministries,
Speaker 2: which is a part of the same founded by her
Speaker 2: brand dad as well. So thank you so much, Sellah
Speaker 2: for being with us today.
Speaker 3: It's a joy for me to join you. Thank you
Speaker 3: for having me.
Speaker 4: That's awesome. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: So I just quickly gave a brief introduction about you,
Speaker 2: and there's so much more that you can talk about yourself.
Speaker 2: I always say, you know, the best introduction a person
Speaker 2: can give is self introduction.
Speaker 4: So you know certain things that you can.
Speaker 2: Share, so quickly tell us something about you that made surprises.
Speaker 5: So, as you said, those are very big titles, But personally,
Speaker 5: I feel like I'm just a regular teenager that goes
Speaker 5: through I mean, like an regular young adult that goes
Speaker 5: through everyday problems. And for me, I've learned how to
Speaker 5: sort them out through my faith and through the leading
Speaker 5: of God as being my friend.
Speaker 3: And so that's how I've been growing up.
Speaker 5: Even though I have this very strong name behind me,
Speaker 5: very big ministry that I've been a part of, but
Speaker 5: even in my personal life, in my everyday life, I
Speaker 5: feel like God has been leading me and that's the
Speaker 5: greatest title that I can give myself.
Speaker 3: I feel like a child of God, the daughter of God,
Speaker 3: the daughter of the King of Kings.
Speaker 5: That's my favorite title, and that's the story I love
Speaker 5: sharing through my music, through my blogs, through my blogs,
Speaker 5: just my experience with Jesus in my everyday life.
Speaker 4: That's awesome. That's awesome.
Speaker 2: Tell us something that will surprise us about you, something
Speaker 2: that we don't know.
Speaker 5: So since I am a very like public personality, people
Speaker 5: expect me to be very extroverted, outgoing, very open person,
Speaker 5: but I'm actually a very shy, interverted person. I only
Speaker 5: have a few friend close friends, and I don't like
Speaker 5: startup conversations with like strangers immediately. So I'm that kind
Speaker 5: of a person. But then whenever something like excites me
Speaker 5: when it comes to my passion, when it comes to
Speaker 5: the things that I love, I'm very open and like
Speaker 5: I love sharing about it. And I'm very comfortable with
Speaker 5: like more of like one on one conversations and like
Speaker 5: talking to people considering.
Speaker 3: Them as my friend.
Speaker 5: And that's kind of something that people may not know
Speaker 5: about me. When people approach me, they say, oh, you're
Speaker 5: so shy. You seem very bubbly on television, but you're
Speaker 5: very quiet.
Speaker 3: You're very shy. So yeah, that's the actual real Stella.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I could totally resonate with what you just said
Speaker 2: about being an introvert. I'm also an introvert and I'm
Speaker 2: also a speaker, So I'm just the opposite. And with
Speaker 2: regard to the fact, like you said that you're more
Speaker 2: comfortable one on wine, but you find it hard on
Speaker 2: public states.
Speaker 4: But I'm just the opposite.
Speaker 2: I can speak to like thousands of people also with
Speaker 2: no hassle, but when it comes to one on one,
Speaker 2: you know, I like freak out many times. And you know,
Speaker 2: like sometimes people actually misunderstand. They're like, Wow, this guy's
Speaker 2: preaching here, he's doing this, blah blah blah blah. Why
Speaker 2: it's yeah, that's how God created each one of us differently.
Speaker 2: So so coming to this important aspect, like as you said,
Speaker 2: you know, like you carry a big name behind you,
Speaker 2: Like here's the thing. Now, my gift mainly is to
Speaker 2: encourage people. That's my main gift. I inspired, that's my
Speaker 2: main gift, and I was greatly influenced by pass Joelo Stein.
Speaker 2: So a lot of people used to tell me when
Speaker 2: I started my ministry that when they listen to me,
Speaker 2: they feel like they're listening to pass the Joelo Steine.
Speaker 2: You know, like eventually, as time progressed, I started, you know,
Speaker 2: like understanding who I really am and started walking in
Speaker 2: my divine purpose and stuff like that. But on a
Speaker 2: similar note, when it comes to you, you come from
Speaker 2: a lineage of ministers right right from your granddad. You
Speaker 2: have a big name behind you that sets you apart
Speaker 2: in terms of the expectations that are laid upon you.
Speaker 2: You also have a big part of Jesus called international ministries.
Speaker 2: There are standards that are set upon you. So when
Speaker 2: you look at the fact that you have to meet
Speaker 2: those expectations and live up to those standards, at the
Speaker 2: same time, you as an individual have a specific purpose
Speaker 2: and identity and a calling. So how do you balance
Speaker 2: between meeting those requirements, meeting those standards at the same
Speaker 2: time not compromising on your true identity. Why I'm asking
Speaker 2: this question is a lot of people are under the
Speaker 2: cover of maybe a church, a ministry, or some family expectations,
Speaker 2: but at the same time they need to know how
Speaker 2: to balance between that and their divine purpose.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I can really resonate with that because even from a
Speaker 5: young age, right at the point of like maybe being born,
Speaker 5: people would have put a label on me or have
Speaker 5: an expectation on me, saying, oh, she is going she's
Speaker 5: born in this family, a family of minister, she's also
Speaker 5: going to grow up to be a minister. But even
Speaker 5: from a young age, I was never really interested in
Speaker 5: preaching because I mean I didn't have any experience in it.
Speaker 5: I didn't have like a passion for it and things
Speaker 5: like that. So even when like people will come up
Speaker 5: to me and say, oh, you're going to follow your grandfather. Uh, first,
Speaker 5: your dad did it. Now it's going to be you.
Speaker 5: You know, when people say that, it's like I know
Speaker 5: in my heart, oh no, that's not the calling that
Speaker 5: God has given me. So, as I said, in my
Speaker 5: personal life, He has been a really great friend leading
Speaker 5: me through each and every step of my life. Whether
Speaker 5: it be in my schooling, whether it be in my friendships,
Speaker 5: whether it be my relationships with my family. God has
Speaker 5: been teaching me and really molding me into the person
Speaker 5: that He intended me to be.
Speaker 3: So in the process of.
Speaker 5: That, he had given me a passion for music. And
Speaker 5: even through that, as I gave my life to Christ,
Speaker 5: he made a commitment to do music to glorify his
Speaker 5: name to share the gospel through that avenue. So it's
Speaker 5: not just preaching that is considered ministry, you know, just
Speaker 5: sharing the gospel and unique ways is considered ministry.
Speaker 3: And I am very blessed.
Speaker 5: To have that platform to be able to share the
Speaker 5: gospel through these different ways, through music, through blogs, through
Speaker 5: blogs and things like that. So that's how God had
Speaker 5: set me, uh, given me that identity. Uh she's a
Speaker 5: singer as she uh and all those things that I do.
Speaker 5: So just sharing my personal experiences gave me that uh
Speaker 5: I identity. And obviously all our experiences are different. So
Speaker 5: even even in our own family, we all are different,
Speaker 5: even my brother, my sister, and I, my grandfather, my
Speaker 5: my grandmother, my mom, even people will would used to
Speaker 5: tell my mom or she even had that desire to
Speaker 5: be so bold like my grand father, to be so
Speaker 5: strong and powerful and pray.
Speaker 3: With a bold spirit.
Speaker 5: But her voice used to be very low, and she's
Speaker 5: a very shy person as well, and like it would
Speaker 5: be so timid when she would speak, but then when
Speaker 5: she would pray, just that voice, that same voice would
Speaker 5: bring tears in the eyes of people, would make the
Speaker 5: demon streak in the meetings. So You should never aspire
Speaker 5: to be someone else. You should aspire to be what
Speaker 5: God created you to be. You have individuality, that's how
Speaker 5: you've been brought up through the experiences that mold you,
Speaker 5: and you should never give that up and say, no,
Speaker 5: I want to be like this person. I want to
Speaker 5: be like that person because they're already taken. So you
Speaker 5: should be yourself, the one that God had created.
Speaker 4: You to be. That's absolutely true.
Speaker 2: I recently released my second book called that Relia Purpose,
Speaker 2: where I want actually your dad is the one who
Speaker 2: gave the forward to it, and that book is something
Speaker 2: where I talk about this important aspect because I realized, like,
Speaker 2: only when you walk in your purpose, you actually fulfill
Speaker 2: your you know, you're able to live to the ice potential,
Speaker 2: You're able to make the impact for God's kingdom, not
Speaker 2: being a copy of somebody else. And I always say this,
Speaker 2: you know, what really makes the difference is what is
Speaker 2: different about you.
Speaker 4: You know, if we try.
Speaker 2: To put everybody in a mold and say, okay, your
Speaker 2: dad was like this, your granddad was like this, or
Speaker 2: you be like that, so that kind of puts you
Speaker 2: in a pressure and a mold that you're not really
Speaker 2: called to be right. So even as a preacher, like
Speaker 2: for example, like you said, a lot of people put
Speaker 2: a pressure on me saying, you know, you have to
Speaker 2: be a preacher like this, you have to do like this.
Speaker 2: And but my gift is like as I said, encouraging
Speaker 2: and storytelling. So one of the gifts I do have
Speaker 2: is like I bring out messages from the random things
Speaker 2: that you could ever imagine, like lessons from Scooby Doo,
Speaker 2: lessons from Hannah Montana or snake Eyeland. So the Christian
Speaker 2: world kind of puts me in a bad spot. They're like, oh,
Speaker 2: this is not a traditional approach, is not the way
Speaker 2: it's supposed to be. So they kind of put you
Speaker 2: in a mold and expect you to, you know, work
Speaker 2: out things in a certain direction, a certain way. But
Speaker 2: as I realized, you know, because of the way I
Speaker 2: present the content, because of the way I am you know,
Speaker 2: reaching out the way I'm gifted. You know, a lot
Speaker 2: of people tell me all the time, you know, I
Speaker 2: don't like anything to do with God, but I watch
Speaker 2: your Scooby Doo videos and then I bring the gospel
Speaker 2: to them. You know, so many people I've heard who
Speaker 2: say this, you know who don't want anything to do
Speaker 2: with God, but stay followed. So if you really want
Speaker 2: to make a difference and impact in this world, you
Speaker 2: have to embrace what is different about you and act
Speaker 2: upon it. And that's where you really see the difference.
Speaker 2: So you'll pointed out in a really beautiful way. So
Speaker 2: now coming down to the aspect that you are writing
Speaker 2: blogs and you know, bringing out songs and so many
Speaker 2: other things, even on social media. So where do you
Speaker 2: get the inspiration and how do you do that?
Speaker 5: So, as I mentioned before, everything that I share is
Speaker 5: from my personal experience or experience from a friend or
Speaker 5: someone who shared their story with me. So I try
Speaker 5: to relate it to an everyday person, an every day
Speaker 5: young adult or going through the same issues. So as
Speaker 5: a young person, you were always searching for am I
Speaker 5: alone in this or can I searching for someone who
Speaker 5: has deal dealt with it or is dealing with it?
Speaker 5: Can someone lend me a helping hand? So I try
Speaker 5: to be as open as asbile and share whatever I
Speaker 5: can to encourage others, to inspire others and.
Speaker 3: Show them that there is a hope in this world.
Speaker 5: You are loved in this world by the God.
Speaker 3: That created you. So that's the main goal.
Speaker 5: Uh And yeah, being open and relatable is the way
Speaker 5: to reach them.
Speaker 3: And some people love listening to music. So I share that.
Speaker 5: My perspective, my life, my stories, through music and through blogs,
Speaker 5: I share something a small thought that God had put
Speaker 5: in my mind, either by like looking at the trees
Speaker 5: or looking at like the things in my everyday life.
Speaker 5: God reminds me of how much He loves me, or
Speaker 5: he reminds me of a story of the time that
Speaker 5: He cad for me. So I share that through my blogs,
Speaker 5: and through my blogs, I display how my relationship is
Speaker 5: with God.
Speaker 3: And then every in my everyday life.
Speaker 5: How I spend my day and how I prepare each
Speaker 5: thing that I do, and how that makes me who
Speaker 5: I am, show my individuality, my personality.
Speaker 3: So I can be more relatable with the people follow
Speaker 3: That's awesome.
Speaker 2: Yes, it's so important to be relatable, right, Like a
Speaker 2: lot of people can come and quote one hundred and
Speaker 2: twenty seven battle verses, but by the end of it
Speaker 2: you're like, oh, my goodness, what did you get from it?
Speaker 2: And it's nothing. But when you are able to relate,
Speaker 2: That's what Jesus did, right, Like he didn't speak about
Speaker 2: some Brandon thing on the street he spoke about. Okay,
Speaker 2: find you guys are farmers. Let me give an example
Speaker 2: from farming. So it's so important that you and I
Speaker 2: are relatable. So coming down to the next part of
Speaker 2: the same question. You know, being a content creator, as
Speaker 2: a child of God, as a minister, Yes, there is
Speaker 2: a set of standards expected of you, and like in
Speaker 2: your case because of your name, because of you know,
Speaker 2: the ministry name. In my case, right now, out of
Speaker 2: the blue, I noticed this, like the minutes a podcast
Speaker 2: that is raising up the charts. You know, there is
Speaker 2: a standard that's expected of you. But in that regard,
Speaker 2: you know you have to stick to the standard and
Speaker 2: at the same time you have to be consistent. So
Speaker 2: how do you balance between you know, creating content that
Speaker 2: is consistent and up to the standard at the same time,
Speaker 2: it's not out of your flesh that you are forced
Speaker 2: to do because you have to do it, but you
Speaker 2: are doing out of the inspiration of the Holy Spirit.
Speaker 5: Yeah, sometimes when you're in work mode, you want to
Speaker 5: meet the deadlines. You want to keep posting every week
Speaker 5: and you don't want to miss out, but you also
Speaker 5: want to give quality content. You don't just want to
Speaker 5: give like something to fill in those days.
Speaker 3: Yes, even I mean like a lot of.
Speaker 5: Times I burn out, and I if I don't think
Speaker 5: the idea is perfect, I don't go through it.
Speaker 3: I'm a very like perfect perfectionist kind of a person.
Speaker 5: So my friends, yet, let me, why aren't you posting
Speaker 5: regularly your logs and even in the comments people say
Speaker 5: when you subscribe.
Speaker 3: To any new blogs. But yes, life does get in
Speaker 3: the way.
Speaker 5: But then you should be intentional about everything that you post.
Speaker 5: At the end of the day, people aren't going to
Speaker 5: see if you've posted every single week. They're going to
Speaker 5: see the content that you put out. So everything that
Speaker 5: you release, uh, even it's even if it's in your job,
Speaker 5: every project that you do, even if it's in your
Speaker 5: school work, everything that you do, it needs to be
Speaker 5: the best that you can give out. So putting in
Speaker 5: the time, putting in the effort, and also creating a
Speaker 5: plan beforehand so that you can give your best at
Speaker 5: the end of the day. It doesn't just reflect you,
Speaker 5: but it reflects who you're representing, which is God. So
Speaker 5: that's what I try to tell people. All the young
Speaker 5: people who watch they ask how should I do this.
Speaker 5: How are you able to organize your day? How can
Speaker 5: you get things done? How to not procrastinate? It's all
Speaker 5: in the intention of what what are you doing this
Speaker 5: for at the end of the day, what are you
Speaker 5: trying to accomplish? What are you're trying to say with
Speaker 5: the things that you create? So always have that in mind.
Speaker 5: It's everything that you do reflects on God. So give
Speaker 5: your best.
Speaker 4: Amen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's absolutely true. Like the scripture says, right, whatever
Speaker 2: you do it, do it until the glory of God.
Speaker 2: So that's absolutely true. So you need to plan and
Speaker 2: you know orchestrate accordingly. And coming down to the next
Speaker 2: thing I wanted to ask you is in regard to
Speaker 2: your songs, And a lot of your songs have been
Speaker 2: such a great blessing and I listen to them on
Speaker 2: a beatnod, So why don't you tell us maybe the
Speaker 2: story of it will happen? How did it happen?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna.
Speaker 5: It will happen is actually one of the most listened
Speaker 5: songs on my album Journey.
Speaker 3: Like everyone I.
Speaker 5: Talked to like when I'm they say they like my songs,
Speaker 5: they say they love it will Happen the most. That
Speaker 5: song also is my personal favorite. I love the music
Speaker 5: oh that goes behind the song, but the main thing
Speaker 5: that attracts people is the line it will happen in
Speaker 5: its time. It's from the Bible verse and ECCLASSI SS three.
Speaker 5: It says everything happens a beautifully in it in its time.
Speaker 5: So that's the main verse that I.
Speaker 3: Based this song around.
Speaker 5: When I was writing that song, I was actually going
Speaker 5: through a very challenging time in my personal life and
Speaker 5: I had a lot of anxiety.
Speaker 3: I was troubled.
Speaker 5: I kept thinking about it, thinking about what will happen
Speaker 5: in my future, and it caused a lot of anxiety,
Speaker 5: a lot of panic in my life. But then as
Speaker 5: I was pondering on it constantly and like it would
Speaker 5: really mess up my mind a lot, I wouldn't be
Speaker 5: able to sleep peacefully. Whenever throughout the day, I would
Speaker 5: get like like panic attacks and my heart would be
Speaker 5: racing and I would be like sweating because of the anxiety.
Speaker 3: But then when I was going through.
Speaker 5: This, I just remembered that God is on my side
Speaker 5: and He will make everything all right, so everything will
Speaker 5: happen according to his plan.
Speaker 3: So that really comforted me, and God really reminded me.
Speaker 5: That you should just trust him and He'll give you
Speaker 5: what you need at the right time.
Speaker 3: So that's those are the lyrics that I just penned down.
Speaker 3: While writing this song. We were actually me and my team.
Speaker 5: We were actually writing a song, like one of the
Speaker 5: last songs for the album, but then I was never
Speaker 5: really satisfied with the tune about the direction that song
Speaker 5: was going in.
Speaker 3: But then.
Speaker 5: One of my team members said, just write a song,
Speaker 5: something catchy like it'll happen. So I took those lines
Speaker 5: and just built the whole verse and the chorus for it.
Speaker 3: It really took me, like only a few minutes of my.
Speaker 5: Time, so I just write down and sat down and
Speaker 5: wrote the whole storyline and how like God gives you
Speaker 5: what you need at the right time, so you don't
Speaker 5: need to be frustrated, you don't need to complain or
Speaker 5: think about it, be confused, just leave it in God's hands.
Speaker 5: He says, just wait and trust my ways. So that's
Speaker 5: what I wrote in that song, and it resonates with
Speaker 5: a lot of people going through different seasons in their lives,
Speaker 5: and I'm so glad that it's an encouragement even as
Speaker 5: they listen to it.
Speaker 4: That's awesome.
Speaker 2: A song that you thought wouldn't happen, it did happen,
Speaker 2: and it was the one that became your favorite.
Speaker 4: And that's the one that's been an impact for so
Speaker 4: many people.
Speaker 2: You know, that's how God can suddenly turn things around,
Speaker 2: suddenly make an impact. Like you know, you planned all
Speaker 2: the other songs and then you're wondering what to do
Speaker 2: and that's when God brought this out. So you know,
Speaker 2: like in this season, God has been telling me this.
Speaker 2: You know, this is the season of suddenly. You know,
Speaker 2: suddenly something is going to pop up and suddenly that's
Speaker 2: going to be the game changer. You know, that's the
Speaker 2: God we serve, and he's able to do that. So
Speaker 2: when you look at the impact, like you said, so
Speaker 2: many people are being blessed, you look at the fact
Speaker 2: that you're able to make an impact to millions of
Speaker 2: people across the globe. When you look at that, like,
Speaker 2: how do you as an individual stay humble? How do
Speaker 2: you stay around and to ensure that Okay, I don't
Speaker 2: hell a pride near my tenth So what do you
Speaker 2: take as a personal step for that?
Speaker 5: First of all, all I always recognize that every gift
Speaker 5: that I have, every achievement that I've done is through
Speaker 5: the help of God. God has given me all the
Speaker 5: ideas and also the people to present it to, and
Speaker 5: he's the one talking to them, and he uses me
Speaker 5: as the vessel, so I always honor that. And also
Speaker 5: I'm blessed to have friends who encourage me to give
Speaker 5: my best. So whenever I show them something, they critique
Speaker 5: it and say, you can do this, you can do
Speaker 5: that to improve it. And also they don't look at
Speaker 5: me as the daughter of a great preacher or a
Speaker 5: famous person, but they see me as Stella their friend.
Speaker 5: And I'm blessed to have those people that God had
Speaker 5: sent to me to show his love through them. So
Speaker 5: we all go through the same things and we talk
Speaker 5: about it and we increase each other. And that's how
Speaker 5: I'm able to like depend on them whenever something happens
Speaker 5: in my life, and they have that to pick me
Speaker 5: up and encourage me to keep saying even if they
Speaker 5: don't uh they are non believing friends, they say.
Speaker 3: Keep going, keep going, this is what you're meant to do.
Speaker 5: And God has given me friends like that to encourage
Speaker 5: me and pick me up during those times.
Speaker 4: That's amazing. That's amazing. I was.
Speaker 2: While I was talking about it, I was reminded of
Speaker 2: one of the keys. When people say about staying humbled.
Speaker 2: They always say, you know, remember where you come from.
Speaker 2: Remember where you come from, so you will be humbled.
Speaker 2: But I was reminded of.
Speaker 4: How in the book I think in me, if I'm
Speaker 4: not wrong.
Speaker 2: It says, you know, to stay humble, remember how God
Speaker 2: let you remember how God to here from. You know,
Speaker 2: rather than just remembering where you come from, the key
Speaker 2: is to remember God in that, and that is how
Speaker 2: you can actually stay around it. And then you know,
Speaker 2: just trying to, you know, use some external tool to
Speaker 2: try to be humble that it's not going to give
Speaker 2: you the result that you are looking for as well.
Speaker 2: So uh you, as you just said, as an individual,
Speaker 2: as a stella romola, Uh you, as an individual. You
Speaker 2: can be a minister of the gospel. You are from
Speaker 2: a lineage of ministers, but you yourself go through seasons
Speaker 2: when you may have a low moment with God. Right,
Speaker 2: So a lot of people today beat themselves up saying,
Speaker 2: oh no, I'm having a low moment with God. My
Speaker 2: visual walk is not good, and they beat themselves up
Speaker 2: and gave up and gain no it gets into such
Speaker 2: something even worse than where they went before. So as
Speaker 2: an individual, you would have encountered low moments with God.
Speaker 2: So if you do, how do you deal with it?
Speaker 2: And how can somebody else follow such a step to
Speaker 2: overcome such seasons in their life.
Speaker 5: So many times we go through those seasons when we
Speaker 5: overthink about what is happening around us.
Speaker 3: It's all in our heads.
Speaker 5: We keep like going through the process of Okay, what
Speaker 5: if this happens, what if that happens, this is how
Speaker 5: I am, or things that we are going through in
Speaker 5: our personal life. We keep thinking about it and we
Speaker 5: blame it on a lot of things. We blame ourselves
Speaker 5: for certain situations, and we forget of how much God
Speaker 5: has given us, how much God has done for us.
Speaker 5: And sometimes it's even hard to rely on God in
Speaker 5: those situations. We forget about him.
Speaker 3: What will he know?
Speaker 5: Like what will he do for me now? And things
Speaker 5: like that. We try to like push him away from us,
Speaker 5: But no matter what we do, we can never run
Speaker 5: away from God. His love is too big to just
Speaker 5: let us go, let us run away. So there are
Speaker 5: so many instances in the Bible that shows us how
Speaker 5: much God loves us, no matter how small and insignificant,
Speaker 5: insignificant we may be, or we may feel, God is
Speaker 5: so big and he loves us so much. So I
Speaker 5: always whenever I feel those whenever I go through those
Speaker 5: moments and feel low, I always try to at least
Speaker 5: be thankful for one thing that I have in my life,
Speaker 5: and I say thank God for giving me life, thank
Speaker 5: you for helping me breathe, thank you for this body
Speaker 5: that's working for me to keep me healthy and alive.
Speaker 5: So something as small as that, when we are thankful
Speaker 5: for that, we immediately get that boost. We immediately get
Speaker 5: a sense of I'm glad, I'm alive, I'm glad I'm
Speaker 5: and I'm glad.
Speaker 3: God is with me.
Speaker 5: And that verse that always cheers me up is that
Speaker 5: God never leaves us, not forsake us, no matter what
Speaker 5: we do, no matter what's happening to us, no matter
Speaker 5: what people will have done to us, He is always
Speaker 5: there for us. So whenever we feel away from God,
Speaker 5: he has never left us, so we should never forget that,
Speaker 5: and He's always waiting for us to run to him.
Speaker 3: And just those simple prayers, those raw prayers.
Speaker 5: Saying what we're going through, really reconnects us with God,
Speaker 5: and he will definitely cheer us up through his mysterious ways,
Speaker 5: either surprising us through a friend, surprising us through just
Speaker 5: something really random that we never even expected, and he'll
Speaker 5: show us how much he cares for us and bring
Speaker 5: us out of that situation and give us a clear mind.
Speaker 5: And yeah, just trusting in God and speaking to him
Speaker 5: really revitalizes us and connects us with him.
Speaker 4: Absolutely true.
Speaker 2: So in line with what you just said is finally,
Speaker 2: by the end of the day, you realize that God
Speaker 2: is not looking for a diplomatic relationship with you.
Speaker 4: He's looking for an intimate relationship with you.
Speaker 2: That's one of the things I always tell because a
Speaker 2: diplomatic relationship is something like maybe an employer and an
Speaker 2: employee is all about like, Okay, I don't care how
Speaker 2: you feel, I don't care what your emotions are. I
Speaker 2: just want you to get the job done. And then
Speaker 2: the other person says, I just want the job. So
Speaker 2: you know that is not the kind of a relationship
Speaker 2: God is looking for.
Speaker 4: He's looking for an intimate.
Speaker 2: Relationship, in which case there will be ups, there will
Speaker 2: be down. So that's actually a good sign that you're
Speaker 2: actually having a real relationship.
Speaker 4: They're being yourself with God. You're open with him. You're
Speaker 4: just if you.
Speaker 2: Feel like crying, you cry, you feel like groaning your
Speaker 2: grown you feel like just saying something. You know, that
Speaker 2: is the way God actually expects of us, rather than
Speaker 2: beating yourself saying, oh my goodness, why am I like this?
Speaker 2: Stupid me, this that, blah blah blah. You know, stop
Speaker 2: beating yourself and start trusting that God is, you know,
Speaker 2: still on the throne. He knows what he's doing and
Speaker 2: he knows how to community at the end of the day. Right,
Speaker 2: So you can have a negative feeling, but just be
Speaker 2: yourself before God. So that is the key to just
Speaker 2: step up your walk with God. And now when you
Speaker 2: look at the fact like today, young people in general
Speaker 2: are going through so much of identity crisis, low self esteem,
Speaker 2: and there's so much happening because they're not able to
Speaker 2: accept themselves for who God created them to be. There's
Speaker 2: so much a pressure that's laid out because of the
Speaker 2: filters on social media. There's all these advertisements which have
Speaker 2: pictured what is meant as you know, ideal or what
Speaker 2: is idealism or.
Speaker 4: Whatever they call it.
Speaker 2: And although in that regard like as an individual. Are
Speaker 2: these things in your life that you found difficult to
Speaker 2: accept yourself in or maybe a personality trade or a
Speaker 2: characteristic and you found it really hard to accept? And
Speaker 2: if you did, how did you deal with it? And
Speaker 2: how can those who listening and watching and also deal
Speaker 2: with it and accept themselves for who God created them
Speaker 2: to be.
Speaker 5: When I used to be younger, whenever I would feel
Speaker 5: like I am a very I feel like maybe I'm
Speaker 5: like too overbearing or like people think I'm like a burden,
Speaker 5: or the things that I say are like kind of
Speaker 5: annoying and things like that, I would think like, oh no,
Speaker 5: I have to like not be like too open and
Speaker 5: loud and like chatty or else.
Speaker 3: People won't like me, and things like that.
Speaker 5: You know, some people will say if you do this,
Speaker 5: then people won't like you. You know, when you're younger,
Speaker 5: people would say that. That used to really get to me.
Speaker 5: I would really think about that a lot and think, oh, no,
Speaker 5: I shouldn't speak that much, I shouldn't say this, I
Speaker 5: should behave in a certain way and things like that.
Speaker 5: Some things that are in my personality I would try
Speaker 5: to change about myself. But then as I grow older,
Speaker 5: I realized people are just so busy that they don't
Speaker 5: even recognize or like even like.
Speaker 3: Uh, like see that.
Speaker 5: Closely enough to even like pick that apart and be like, oh,
Speaker 5: she's annoying. You know this, the things that she does
Speaker 5: in this way is wrong. You know, people go through
Speaker 5: this when we when they have social anxiety. You know,
Speaker 5: I don't want people to hate me. That kind of
Speaker 5: a mindset. I used to have that, but then as they.
Speaker 4: Pardon no, you said, like please people please mindset. You
Speaker 4: want them to like you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I wouldn't do certain things because I thought
Speaker 5: they wouldn't like it. But then as I grew older,
Speaker 5: people have so much going on in their own lives
Speaker 5: that they don't even they might not even.
Speaker 3: Like notice it. So just be yourself, be bubbly.
Speaker 5: You know, there will be a certain group of people
Speaker 5: who will automatically attached with you because they like those
Speaker 5: personality traits, They like those characteristics, and the people who
Speaker 5: are that, who are for you, will come and connect
Speaker 5: with you. And that's how I've like been gelling with
Speaker 5: my group of friends, even though we're all different, but
Speaker 5: then we encourage each other and like it's.
Speaker 3: Never a judgmental zone.
Speaker 5: There's no judgment between each other putting each other down
Speaker 5: or saying like sarcastic comments to put each other down.
Speaker 5: But it's always like in good fun and light hearted
Speaker 5: fun and things like that. So you should never say, oh,
Speaker 5: I should be like this, people might think if if
Speaker 5: I'm like this, people might think something wrong.
Speaker 3: About me, and things like that.
Speaker 5: Just be yourself and always have a good intention of
Speaker 5: however you're presenting yourself and the things that you do
Speaker 5: behind the things that you say. So, yeah, everyone is unique,
Speaker 5: and yeah, you definitely have a place in this world.
Speaker 5: If you never feel like you are a misfit. It's
Speaker 5: good to stand out sometimes.
Speaker 2: Be unique, absolutely true. Just be who God has created
Speaker 2: you to be. Like every piece of a puzzle, it
Speaker 2: seems stupid till you understand without that, the puzzle won't
Speaker 2: make any sense. Right, So every one of us are
Speaker 2: in the puzzle of God. And when you were shatting
Speaker 2: about you know what other people think? I was reminded
Speaker 2: of this state where people say, you know, at twenty
Speaker 2: years the page, we wonder what will people think of us?
Speaker 2: At forty we wonder, like, Okay, I don't care what
Speaker 2: people think about us at sixty, we realize that nobody
Speaker 2: was even thinking about us. So in that regard, we realize, like, okay,
Speaker 2: there's no point in living for other people. By the
Speaker 2: end of the day, you have to give an account
Speaker 2: to God for your life, and that's based on how
Speaker 2: you are living to your true I didn't city and
Speaker 2: purpose that God has created you for Ussel That's absolutely true.
Speaker 2: And there's so much of talk these days about mental health,
Speaker 2: and thanks to the pandemic, all these things have been
Speaker 2: just on the rise, so many people into depression and
Speaker 2: suicidal thoughts and anxiety, panic and thanks trauma, fear. And
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people how contacted me, like,
Speaker 2: you know, especially when I made one of my videos
Speaker 2: on you know, overcoming the fear of bad things happening
Speaker 2: and accidents. I know so many people, even about the faiths,
Speaker 2: who watched those videos and came and asked me, and
Speaker 2: I was able to share the gospel with them. But
Speaker 2: the problem today is that the Christian world president is
Speaker 2: you know, silent about it, or for the most part,
Speaker 2: they are not talking about it because they're like, okay, fine,
Speaker 2: don't talk about it. Just trust God is you know,
Speaker 2: it's just you don't have faith and things like that.
Speaker 2: But you know, the silence cannot anyway account for the
Speaker 2: number of lives that are being lost every day. So
Speaker 2: what is your talk or what is lot take on
Speaker 2: mental health? And what would you say for those who
Speaker 2: are going through the issues with regard to mental health.
Speaker 5: I would definitely, uh like say, talk to professional, uh
Speaker 5: someone who has the right values that align with your values,
Speaker 5: who can help you overcome it, or just uh like
Speaker 5: be with you as you go through it, to hear
Speaker 5: you out and pray with you and just be there
Speaker 5: for you as a friend. So either a professional or
Speaker 5: a pastor or a Christian leader or a friend who
Speaker 5: can just listen to you, listen to what's going on
Speaker 5: in your head and just be that for you whenever
Speaker 5: you need them and help you through whatever you're going through.
Speaker 5: So I don't think that it's bad to see a
Speaker 5: therapist or a professional and that's what they studied for,
Speaker 5: you know, but just make sure that it aligns with
Speaker 5: your values and help get you the help.
Speaker 3: That you need.
Speaker 2: Absolutely true, that's true because a lot of lives are
Speaker 2: being affected because of these things. And is there something
Speaker 2: else you would like to share with us?
Speaker 5: Today as a young person, the main thing that helped
Speaker 5: me shape me into who I am and find my
Speaker 5: identity is being strong in my values. So no matter
Speaker 5: where I went, no matter what country I visited, no
Speaker 5: matter what kind of friends that I surrounded myself with,
Speaker 5: my values never changed. Obviously it was shaped during the
Speaker 5: teenage years of my life my young adult years, but
Speaker 5: then I was always strong in who I was living for,
Speaker 5: what I was doing, what I was what my purpose is.
Speaker 5: So once I found it and I shaped it, and
Speaker 5: I'm currently like still learning a lot of things. But
Speaker 5: it's very important as a young adult to be strong
Speaker 5: on your values.
Speaker 3: And the way that you find your values.
Speaker 5: As a person who believes in Jesus is you're It's
Speaker 5: rooted in the Bible, so it's very important to read
Speaker 5: it each day and study it and to understand it
Speaker 5: and be strong in it as you're growing as a Christian.
Speaker 3: So that's what I would recommend.
Speaker 5: Just read the Word of God, understand it, and talk
Speaker 5: to God and build that relationship with him. It's not
Speaker 5: just knowing Jesus, but it is walking with Him in
Speaker 5: your everyday life. And that's what I would encourage each
Speaker 5: young person. So whenever you're going through a dilemma of
Speaker 5: can I do this?
Speaker 3: Can I do that? Is it okay? Is it wrong?
Speaker 5: When you have those questions, go to the Bible and
Speaker 5: see where your values lie, where your beliefs lie, and
Speaker 5: everything's just listed out that You're guidebook for life is
Speaker 5: listed there, so and you'll know what your purpose is,
Speaker 5: where your worth lies, and who God has.
Speaker 3: Created you to be.
Speaker 4: That's absolutely true.
Speaker 2: Do you have any specific project that you are working
Speaker 2: on currently that you can give us a little speak too.
Speaker 5: I'm working on a Tummil album, so I just released
Speaker 5: my original English album, so the next is my original
Speaker 5: Thumbel album.
Speaker 3: I me and my team are working on it.
Speaker 5: I am trying to write the songs and the lyrics
Speaker 5: for it as well.
Speaker 3: So keep that in your prayers.
Speaker 4: Absolutely absolutely.
Speaker 2: I want to just ask you this question, like, Okay,
Speaker 2: you're so good in English, but at the same time
Speaker 2: you're going to.
Speaker 4: Work on a Namel album.
Speaker 2: How do you manduver between two things.
Speaker 5: I grew up speaking Tummerl at home, but I'm not
Speaker 5: very fluent in.
Speaker 3: Like the big big words.
Speaker 5: So what I do is I just figure out the
Speaker 5: theme in English and like type out like the words
Speaker 5: that I want to use, like the English words, I
Speaker 5: type out, type them out, and then I just translated
Speaker 5: to Google and see which one sounds nice.
Speaker 4: And I use it in my song.
Speaker 3: That's a little tip for you songwriters.
Speaker 4: That's really good. That's good.
Speaker 2: I mean right now, there are people who are actually
Speaker 2: wanted to do like my podcast into other languages. And
Speaker 2: somebody actually wanted to try out and tamble. So I
Speaker 2: mean I couldn't figure out how it was with some
Speaker 2: machine it right, and uh, somebody said it was like
Speaker 2: mixing Tamil and English. So that's why I was excited
Speaker 2: how we're managing. So do you have any specific word
Speaker 2: for the ministry the podcast and uh, you know, what
Speaker 2: would you like to share?
Speaker 5: I would just encourage you to keep going, uh and
Speaker 5: uh listen to God as.
Speaker 3: To what he wants you to share.
Speaker 5: And and it's been wonderful listening to all of your messages,
Speaker 5: you're listening to your podcasts and your books and everything.
Speaker 5: It's just a great thing that you keep consistently putting
Speaker 5: out these things.
Speaker 3: In new ways. So I would just encreage you to
Speaker 3: keep going.
Speaker 5: And it's definitely in our prayers and it's we're very
Speaker 5: excited that Carnean has been doing this.
Speaker 3: Uh and yeah, just all the best.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much, thank you.
Speaker 2: So one final bonus question before we go into the
Speaker 2: final prayer of impartation.
Speaker 4: So I had to break this out.
Speaker 2: So, if you could be any cartoon character or movie
Speaker 2: character or anything that you just dreamed about, who would
Speaker 2: you be and.
Speaker 3: Why cartoon character? I feel.
Speaker 5: I used to watch pop uff Girls all the time,
Speaker 5: so I okay character Bubble. Okay, Blossom is like the
Speaker 5: very strong leader kind of a person, and but a
Speaker 5: Cup is a very like.
Speaker 3: She'll just beat up everybody that comes her way.
Speaker 5: But Bubble has the balance of both like cuteness and
Speaker 5: like bubbly character. But then if somebody hurts her family
Speaker 5: or somebody like doesn't like does something wrong, or like
Speaker 5: something that doesn't align with her, then she will get
Speaker 5: the job done, you know, like that about it.
Speaker 2: For me, my favorite has always been Scooby Doo. So
Speaker 2: I'm like nicknamed a Scooby pastor and been featured on
Speaker 2: some newspaper and other platforms for my collection, like I
Speaker 2: have like Scooby Doo pen Drive, so that I always
Speaker 2: like the first question, I would ask anybody is do
Speaker 2: you like Scooby Doo No, So, because that's one of
Speaker 2: the best ways other than my usual traditional approach, I'll
Speaker 2: use that to you know, enhance the Kingdom of Guard.
Speaker 4: So there's so many, like.
Speaker 2: Thousands of people on those platforms who are like literally
Speaker 2: close to the Gospel and they don't want to have
Speaker 2: anything to do with Guard. But you know, my heart
Speaker 2: is to read such people with and you can't just
Speaker 2: read saying oh, I'm a Scooby fan, I'll listen to
Speaker 2: my message that doesn't work yetly, so you know, put
Speaker 2: out content based on that or voice over or whatever,
Speaker 2: and then do it.
Speaker 4: You know, it makes a great impact by the end
Speaker 4: of it.
Speaker 2: So thank you so much once again for joining and
Speaker 2: it was such a great session that we just had,
Speaker 2: and those of you are listening to me. I'll be
Speaker 2: putting the links to her a blog, a website, and
Speaker 2: a YouTube channel as well as an Instagram account on
Speaker 2: both the YouTube as well as on all the podcast platforms.
Speaker 2: So go out and listen to it and check them out.
Speaker 2: And the songs have been a great blessing. Go ahead
Speaker 2: and do it. I'm sure it'd be a great blessing.
Speaker 2: For all of you, and do like common Share, subscribe
Speaker 2: to this as well so that it'll reach more people
Speaker 2: and make an impact. So yeah, so I just want
Speaker 2: you to close the session with a god a prayer
Speaker 2: and encourage people. If you're led to share any word
Speaker 2: over anybody.
Speaker 5: Sure, I'll definitely say a small word of prayer. Lord Jesus,
Speaker 5: I pray for everyone watching and listening to this podcast. Lord,
Speaker 5: I pray that you will bless each and every one
Speaker 5: of them Lord today, if they are dealing with any anxiety,
Speaker 5: any pressure, any stress in their lives.
Speaker 3: Lord, I pray that you will give them your peace
Speaker 3: and let your rest fill their hearts. Lord, fill their spirits. Lord,
Speaker 3: let them feel very calm.
Speaker 5: Lord, let them not have any sleepless nights anymore, but
Speaker 5: let them have your rest that you give them. Lord,
Speaker 5: Lord Jesus, I pray for anyone dealing with any sicknesses
Speaker 5: or pain.
Speaker 3: In their bodies. Lord, I pray that you will heal them. Lord.
Speaker 5: By your wounds, they are healed, Lord, so I thank
Speaker 5: you for healing them at this moment, Lord Jesus, I
Speaker 5: pray for everyone who is struggling financially, Lord, that you
Speaker 5: will bless them and you will prosper every work of
Speaker 5: their hands. Lord, Jesus, I pray for their families, that
Speaker 5: you will give them peace and their families and give them.
Speaker 3: Love to enjoy each other's presence.
Speaker 5: Lord, Lord, I pray that you will bless your children
Speaker 5: with wisdom and knowledge as they go out into this world, Lord,
Speaker 5: and as they do everything in your name for your glory. Lord,
Speaker 5: I pray that you will bless the work of their
Speaker 5: hands and increase them.
Speaker 3: Lord. Lord Jesus, I pray for every young person watching
Speaker 3: this podcast. Lord, even as they are building their values,
Speaker 3: they're building their identity there in the individuality and their personality. Lord,
Speaker 3: I pray that you will shape them, and you will
Speaker 3: show them what and who you have created them to be. Lord.
Speaker 5: Lead them and guide them through your holy spirit, Lord,
Speaker 5: and help them to reach many heights and increase their efforts. Lord,
Speaker 5: and bless them in their lives. So Jesus, I pray
Speaker 5: for everyone who's struggling with their identity. Lord, I pray
Speaker 5: that you will show them how much you love them, Lord,
Speaker 5: and how much you love them that you have given
Speaker 5: your life for them, Lord, so that they can have
Speaker 5: freedom in this world. They can be free of sin,
Speaker 5: from sickness, and from whatever they are struggling. With Lord Jesus,
Speaker 5: you'll be their friend from this day forward and show
Speaker 5: them that they are a child of the King of
Speaker 5: King's Lord, Bless them and increase them in Jesus same
Speaker 5: I pray.
Speaker 4: Thank you so.
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Speaker 2: If your heart stops beating, now, do you know where
Speaker 2: you're going? If you came face to face with that, now,
Speaker 2: do you know where you're going. This is not a
Speaker 2: message of condemnation. This is a message of hope. There
Speaker 2: is a God who loves you so much he sent
Speaker 2: his only son, Jesus Christ to come down and pay
Speaker 2: a heavy price by shedding every drop of his blood
Speaker 2: on the cross. Thank you for dying for my sins.
Speaker 2: When you believe in Him, you have free gift of
Speaker 2: salvation for you that assures us that we will go
Speaker 2: to Heaven when we die instead of suffering in hell forever.
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